Oyate’ The People Education Card for Healthy Marriage and Relationship Education Programs
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OYATE’ THE PEOPLE
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Does your relationship honor Oyate’ traditions and cultural practices? In balanced, healthy relationships, partners:
Oyate’ (as one of the people) means we all deserve to be honored by partners who listen and support one another in a good way. |
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Conflict Happens All relationships have conflict, but sometimes, it can cause lasting harm. In abusive relationships, a person:
These experiences are common. Most people know someone who has been hurt by a partner or caregiver in their lifetimes. If something like this is happening to you or a friend, call or text the hotlines on this card. |
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We are Sacred Domestic and sexual violence were not originally part of the Oyate’ traditional Native Culture or ways of Tribal shared living. Women were honored as the givers and protectors of life; men were warriors and providers. These roles give honor and sacredness. Children represent our futures for the next seven generations. Our traditions, ceremonies, songs, and prayers respect the mind, body, spirit, and integrity of all people. |
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Helping a Friend or Family Member Even if you haven’t experienced abuse in your relationship, chances are you know someone who has been abusive or has been abused. You can:
When you help others, it helps you too! |
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Difficult Family History Many people (1 in 4) grew up in homes where there was abuse or other difficult situations.
Childhood can be painful, but healing is possible.
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Stronger You There are things you can do to feel stronger and to help you heal from past harm.
Identify safe connections in your community, which may include friends, cultural healers, elders, family, health care providers, or other supportive professionals. |
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Safety Planning If your partner is hurting you, it is not your fault. You deserve to be safe and treated with respect. “Safe” looks different for everyone. Here are some things that can help:
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You Can Change If you have been abusive in your relationship, you can choose to change your behavior and heal from past harm. ✔ Learn more about what abusive behaviors are, including emotional, financial, and sexual abuse. ✔ Look at yourself honestly and take responsibility for your behavior. ✔ Get help - there are programs that can support you in changing. Change can be hard; it requires seeking new pathways, thinking, responses, and directions. But all your relationships will benefit, and you will feel better about yourself. |
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The National Domestic Violence Hotline is confidential, open 24/7, and has kind staff who can help you develop a plan to be safer. Stronghearts Native Helpline: 1-800-799-7233 The National Domestic Violence Hotline:
Text trained counselors about anything that’s on your mind:
©2024 Futures Without Violence. All rights reserved. This card was developed with funding from the Office of Family Assistance under contract number 47QRAA19D004U with the Office of Planning, Research, and Evaluation, Administration for Children and Families, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. |
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Author | Samantha Ciaravino (She/Her/Hers) |
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File Created | 2025-07-04 |